Honest thoughts on love as a 20 year old

True love can’t exist. The guys who are actually good are either taken or not interested.

I don’t believe I will get married one day. It’s not because I’m scared that it is “once in a lifetime or forever”. If that was the case, divorce wouldn’t exist.

I have high standards. All I look for in a guy is his genuine respect and our ability to talk about anything. I know it might not seem like much but for all the guys I encountered, that’s a high standard.

In addition, I have a hard time connecting with others. It takes me awhile to warm up to others.

Anyways, I’ve witnessed a lot of horrid relationships throughout my life. I would be lying if I said it didn’t affect my view on love. It’s sort of a blessing and a curse. I know what not to look for in a person but I’m also horrified with the thought of falling for someone.

I feel like it’s impossible to find “the one”. It’s possible for others but not me.

Romance isn’t meant for me at this point in my life. Chivalry is dead and if I end up having a significant other in college, I will be surprised.

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